Put an End to Homework Wars: 6 Easy Steps

Does the idea of a root canal sound less painful than homework time with your child? You’re not alone! Many parents have come to dread this nightly activity because of a resistant child, disorganized materials, and difficult assignments. However, research shows that homework can teach children valuable retention, time-management, and study skills, while fostering positive character traits such as independence and responsibility. So how can you cut down on conflict and increase the effectiveness of homework time with your child? Below are some highly effective tips for parents, generated by a pool of educational professionals:  

1. Location, location, location! This common real estate adage proves true for homework and study time as well. It’s important to choose a location in the home that’s free from distractions, and offers the child plenty of space to lay out their materials and books. This space should be quiet and well-lit, and preferably free from television or radio.
2. Organization is the Key. Using a planner or a large calendar (you may want to tear out the individual months and post them on the wall, left to right), or even a calendar app on a smart phone where age-appropriate, have your child mark out important exam dates, upcoming reports, projects etc., each with a different color.
3. Keep it Consistent. Designate a specific time each day, preferably not just before bedtime, to tackle homework. Bigger projects might be better saved for weekends, especially if it involves working with other students.
4. Preparation Aids Success. Have school materials, including pens, pencils, pencil sharpener, paper and a dictionary, readily accessible. Encourage your child to use resource materials, such as an encyclopedia or dictionary, regularly when working on assignments.
5. Watch for Signs of Frustration. Be aware of shifts in your child’s mood during homework and study time. If you see your child become upset, angry or frustrated with the assignment, consider taking a short break, or ending the homework session for the night when possible.
6.  Let Your Child Do the Work. Remember, your job is to maintain a positive attitude about homework, and offer guidance, not answers. Your child’s job is to actually complete the work. Too much help can hinder the learning process. According to the U.S. Department of Education, “homework is a great way for kids to develop independent, lifelong learning skills."

Homework doesn’t have to be a painful experience. Showing your children that homework can be fun, and implementing these 6 tips can help make life a little easier for everyone in the family when it comes to study time and organization, and help you finally put an end to homework wars once and for all!