The back to school season is officially upon us parents, and once again we are preparing clothes, packing lunches, and hoping desperately that our kids have a wonderful school year! One secret weapon to a great school year is balance. For children to perform their best this school year, parents should ensure they get a good night’s sleep, eat a well-balanced diet, and have plenty of opportunity for exercise.
Parents and educators alike can agree that kids need time to play outside. Outside play stimulates both the mind and the body, promotes better attention and focus in the classroom, and gives kids a much-needed outlet to release energy. The American Academy of Pediatrics agrees, calling recess “a crucial and necessary component of a child’s development.” Studies show it offers important cognitive, social, emotional, and physical benefits, yet many schools are cutting down on breaks to squeeze in more lessons, which may be counterproductive, it warns.
But unfortunately, educators have the burden of squeezing in a near-impossible amount of learning expectations into an already-abbreviated school day. In fact, a 2005 survey from the National Center for Education Statistics found that 7% of first-graders and 8% of third-graders had never had recess; while 14% of first-graders and 15% of third-graders only had 1 to 15 minutes per day of recess. So it’s a difficult balance to provide students, particularly at the lower elementary grades, with the right balance of recess and classroom time.
Several schools in Texas received national media attention in recent years for their approach to recess. In Fort Worth, TX, Eagle Mountain Elementary School began offering recess 4 times per day, for 15 minute intervals each. The results were extremely positive – from more focus in the classroom, to better ability to listen and follow directions, and fewer discipline issues.
So what can you do to help ensure your child gets the right balance of outside play and classroom engagement? Encourage your school administrators to offer more recess and physical activity time. Offer extracurricular opportunities to your kids to play and exercise. Help your kids strike that balance of building the brain and the body simultaneously. The results may astound you!
Getting kids to want to eat healthy meal choices can be a challenge. All parents have probably been there at one point or another – the meal time negotiation. It looks something like this:
Parent: “Ok, eat 2 more bites of your vegetables and then you’re done with dinner.”
Child: “Grooooaaaan. Do I have to???”
Parent: “Ok, what about 1 more bite of your veggies and 1 bite of your chicken?”
Child: “But I don’t like them.”
Parent: “Ok, final offer – 1 bite of chicken and finish all of your milk. But you get no dessert!”
Does this sound familiar? While some families are lucky enough to have kids who will eat anything (think “Mikey” from the old Life cereal commercials), most have to deal with a picky eater at least once during childhood. The benefits of a healthy, well-balanced diet for children are so far reaching; not the least of which is proper cognitive and physical development. But a proper diet also helps to stabilize children’s energy, gives them the ability to focus better in the classroom, and ultimately improves classroom performance and even grades over time. So how can you go from mealtime standoffs to mealtime successes? Here are some tips to help your kids establish good eating habits, and reap the benefits of a healthy diet:
These are just a few ideas to help establish balance for our kids, and help them get off to a great start this school year! As always, do what works best for your family and don’t worry too much about whether or not your kids are eating enough Brussel sprouts. Take heart that your efforts now, no matter how challenging the meal time battles may be, will have long term payoff for your child – in the classroom and beyond!
No matter how you look at it, college is an expensive proposition these days. Both public and private colleges and universities have had to raise fees and tuition as costs have increased. As a result, college student debt has skyrocketed and many students end up with loan payments years, sometimes even decades, after graduation. But with some careful planning and creative thinking, there are lots of other ways to help pay for college and avoid being stuck with big loan payments after graduation. One final but important step in the college application process is to include an application for financial aid.
As parents, and grandparents for that matter, we consider it to be a bit of a rite of passage to tell our children just how easy they have it compared to what we went through at their age. File this under the “when I was your age, I had to walk 2 miles to school each day, uphill both ways” category.
For any parent of a college-bound student, SAT and ACT test scores are no doubt at the center of most dinner table discussions. While no one will argue that test scores alone are the deciding factor in college admissions, and many colleges are moving toward a test-optional admissions policy, strong scores on the SAT and or ACT can definitely help a student’s chance of gaining admission to his/her college of choice.